It doesn’t help that many of us exited pandemic lockdown to find that our social skills had atrophied. And now modern communication technologies such as Zoom, Boland’s research suggests, beget particularly inelegant conversations. We interact with both strangers and acquaintances-with whom we’re likely to have some clumsy back-and-forths-at a rate that would have been unheard-of before people flooded to cities and travel grew far easier. Uncomfortable silences have always existed, but in many ways, they’re harder to avoid today than ever before. We are alert to the moment rhythm ruptures, like when someone loses the beat in a karaoke performance. ![]() It helps, at least somewhat, that Boland knows the reason these breaks tend to feel cringey: They disrupt the conversational volley of call-and-response that usually comes to people naturally. When there’s a pause, no one seems to know whose turn it is to speak. She’s a psychology and linguistics professor at the University of Michigan, and like many of us, she’s been spending a lot of time on Zoom calls over the past few years-and seemingly always dealing with internet lags and people fumbling to mute and unmute their mic. ![]() ![]() A t this point, Julie Boland is resigned to awkward silences.
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